Is it just me who is surrounded by too many people who are not happy with their "Rishtas"..They have real compatibility issues with their partner. They don't bond well. Kind of forced relationship. Not talking about bollywood ishq wala love..but the one where conversations are real and not faked ones.
I know people who have been in good relationship after getting fixed or engaged. They were/are happy but then there are these people who are not happy and are always sad , worried about the future.. Some even have suicidal tendencies..
And when they confront their partner or their family all they get to hear is " Compromise karna padta ha "Ladka/ladki acha/i ha..khandan acha ha..aur kya chahiye?? Sab kuch nahi milta ha..." Come on! How can one compromise on compatibility. Also, the epic shadi k baad sab theek hoga.. It's just a phase. How can something improve if it's not working now?
And when some Risha breaks because of compatibility issue, why is it so heard for everyone to digest it..? Nobody believes it.. Everyone is like Khabar kya asi asli wajah.. ?
As they say shaadi ke basic concept mein hi jhol hai. Parents just want their chidren to get married no matter what because obviously log kya kahenge ..and there are many people who give in because of family pressure.
And when some Risha breaks because of compatibility issue, why is it so heard for everyone to digest it..? Nobody believes it.. Everyone is like Khabar kya asi asli wajah.. ?
As they say shaadi ke basic concept mein hi jhol hai. Parents just want their chidren to get married no matter what because obviously log kya kahenge ..and there are many people who give in because of family pressure.
Maybe I'm wrong about all these things..Maybe things will improve after Shadi..but all these things bother me a lot ..
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